A disabled Veteran named Michael says that is exactly what happened when he asked his bosses if therapy dogs were allowed at work.
Michael served with my adopted soldier in the Army until he suffered a traumatic brain injury (TBI) and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and was medically retired. Later, Michael was fortunate to find a job he greatly enjoyed in Texas at an energy-related company. He was upfront with his employers about his condition and what medications he was taking.
According to his wife, “Everyone wanted to keep Mike on their team because he was a hard worker and fast learner. He made top scores in his classes he took and LOVED his job. Our little family of 4 was settling in the civilian world.”
Things seemed to be going well. Then Michael’s therapist suggested he would benefit in social situations even more if he had a therapy dog. Michael asked his bosses if it were possible to bring a therapy dog to work with him. He did not have a therapy dog, but wanted to know if they were open to it.
Monday: Michael makes the inquiry. Says his higher-ups seemed intrigued—might be cool to have a dog around.
Thursday: One boss suggests that Michael quit. The impression Michael got was that management felt if he needed a service dog, he couldn’t be trusted at his job.
Friday: Michael was told to take a personal day and please bring in the truck so it can be refitted because we’re transferring you to another division.
Friday at 5:30pm: Fired
Now if this Texas company had concerns that any employee were unfit for their job, those concerns should be addressed. However, when the week began, the reviews of Michael’s work were all positive.
Michael’s wife was understandably upset and reached out to my adopted soldier’s wife, Mrs. K. Then Mrs. K called me asking for advice about next steps. This problem is not in my normal realm of care package ideas and letters, but I tried to think of what I could do to help.
My first thoughts
My first thoughts were a jumble of: hire an attorney, Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America (IAVA) may have some insights or know people who faced similar situations, maybe Team Allen knows a thing or two about disabled vet rights. Oh, and maybe they could reach out to leaders in the therapy dog community. Along with any local media or veteran groups in his area that can be an advocate for him.
Okay, that’s not exactly true. My first thoughts were really:
2. Maybe this is why some troops don’t go for counseling after suffering traumas while serving—they’re worried about perception.
Michael has hired a lawyer. Since law is not my area of expertise, I will turn to what I do know—the power and kindness of strangers. If you have any encouraging words or brilliant ideas for Michael and his family, you can leave them in the comments or email me here: firstname.lastname@example.org and I will forward. Michael and his wife have two little girls ages 3 and 5 and a whole new challenge in front of them right now. At the very least, I hope to show them that they are not facing it alone.
SEMI-UPDATE: The legal process is in motion and, for legal reasons, the details will not appear here. But when things resolve, I hope to report good news. Meanwhile, I wanted to share this note from Michael’s wife:
Michael was very humbled by the blog and all the comments. We have felt an outpouring of love and feel so grateful to have so many people care.
© Gina left the mall, 2014